Hi, I'm Heather, and like you...
I know firsthand how overwhelming toddlerhood can be.
When my own twins turned two-and-a-half, they dropped their nap out of nowhere. Suddenly, my days were filled with tantrums, power struggles, and more hitting and kicking than I could handle.
I tried everything the “experts” said—positive validation, time-outs, boundaries—but nothing seemed to work. I was exhausted, defeated, and, honestly, a little scared.
If you feel Like Nothing is Working, This Course is your Lifeline
A Toddler that Communicates their needs Peacefully, is a Kind Brother or Sister, and is on track to be Kindergarten Ready
Would you like:
➔ Outings without meltdowns
➔ Directions followed the first time
➔ Calmer, more enjoyable mealtimes and bedtimes
➔ A closer, more positive connection with your child
If you answered YES, then I'm really glad you're here. You see I've dedicated my life to helping Toddler Parents and Caretakers with their Toddlers Tantrums.
But how can you be the parent you imagined when your toddler isn't listening, is constantly in tantrum mode, and you struggle to stay calm amidst all the chaos?
It's actually a lot easier than you think - simply by following the right strategies for your toddler and step by step by guidance, you'll see results!
This course is unlike anything you've tried before.
Toddler Personality EQ
Stop using strategies that don't work for your toddlers personality and start by using Heather's Toddler Personality EQ Formula to find what actually works with and for your toddler!
Empowered Toddler Communication Script
Does your toddler scream or get physical when they get upset, frustrated or have tantrums? They need their custom script to help them get un-stuck so they stop aggressive and harmful behaviors and communicate appropriately.
The Tantrum Cycle Breaker
Your toddler needs an outlet for their disappointment and frustration, teaching your toddler to channel their upset energy to something socially acceptable that is a healthier coping mechanism.
Sibling Support
If your toddler and their siblings are fighting and pushing each others buttons then this course will support you with all of your children and the sibling dynamic!
Emotionally Cool Response Systems
Your feeling heated and wanting to react, this is how you can go from charged to chilled and feel confident that your parenting from a place of leadership using emotional and self regulation strategies.
The Family Reset and Reconnect Framework
Learn how to stop reacting by using specific methods that make it easy to stop yelling and getting worked up fast and instead connect to build understanding which directly improves your toddler listening and following directions!
The cohort definitely opened my eyes to my son’s need for agency. I definitely knew he needed connection but adding in a few techniques to help with agency has helped so much and has actually helped us connect at the same time (has forced me to slow down and think about offering choices, having him help in different ways with baby sister and reduce some common power struggles).
Kristen - Course Participant
I really started to see a change in the way I responded to my boys and the way they responded to me using the “Pause, whisper, redirect” strategy. When all of our emotions were running high, it helped so much to bring them down again. When I respond more calmly they tend to follow my example. It has improved the time of our home so much!
D. - Course Participant
Want to know why most of the parenting strategies you've probably already tried DIDN'T work?
Regular Parenting Strategies don't Work because:
➔ They don't account for each child’s unique temperament, leading to more frustration for both you and your toddler.
➔ Many approaches focus solely on controlling behavior rather than understanding the root cause of why your child is acting out.
➔ Generic advice often lacks the hands-on tools you need to guide your child through difficult moments.
➔ Traditional strategies overlook the importance of emotional regulation, making it hard for your toddler to develop essential coping skills.
This program gets amazing results because:
➔ It empowers you to understand your child’s unique temperament and needs—creating cooperation from the start.
➔ It teaches you how to transform tantrums into manageable moments, giving your toddler skills to self-regulate.
➔ It’s designed with simple, step-by-step strategies that are easy to implement, even for the busiest parent.
➔ You’ll learn how to stay calm in challenging moments, which helps you build a peaceful, joyful home environment and a secure parent-child bond.
And what about the 3 Common Myths that
Are Holding You Back from Raising a Calm, Cooperative Toddler
Toddlers just don’t listen, it’s normal.
Many people believe toddlers simply won’t listen, and that’s just part of the experience. While it’s true toddlers are naturally curious and strong-willed, it doesn’t mean you have to endure constant chaos. The truth is, with the right strategies, your toddler actually wants to listen and cooperate.
The more boundaries, the better.
We’re often told that setting lots of strict boundaries is the key to raising a well-behaved child. But piling on boundaries without understanding your toddler’s needs only leads to more resistance and power struggles. Instead, strategic and well-placed boundaries combined with positive guidance can create a more cooperative and peaceful environment
Ignoring tantrums makes them stop.
Another common myth is that the best way to deal with tantrums is to ignore them until they go away. This approach not only leaves both you and your toddler feeling disconnected but can also miss valuable opportunities to teach emotional regulation. The truth? Addressing tantrums not just in the moment but paired with proactive coping strategies and targeted communication really helps your toddler learn the skills they struggle with so they can learn to get their needs met more independently.
Imagine what it will feel like as:
- Your toddler begins to listen the first time, and power struggles become a thing of the past.
- Your stress levels drop, knowing you have tools that work when meltdowns happen.
- You enjoy deeper, joyful moments with your child, and family activities no longer end in frustration.
- You quickly and naturally respond to challenging behaviors, feeling calm and in control without having to raise your voice.
- Your confidence as a parent grows, knowing you’re setting your child up for success in kindergarten and beyond.
What would it be worth to you, to feel —confident, calm, and connected with your toddler?
Here's what it's meant to others...
D.
I really started to see a change in the way I responded to my boys and the way they responded to me using the “Pause, whisper, redirect” strategy. When all of our emotions were running high, it helped so much to bring them down again. When I respond more calmly they tend to follow my example. It has improved the time of our home so much!
Kristen-
The cohort definitely opened my eyes to my son’s need for agency. I definitely knew he needed connection but adding in a few techniques to help with agency has helped so much and has actually helped us connect at the same time (has forced me to slow down and think about offering choices, having him help in different ways with baby sister and reduce some common power struggles).
C.
I think all the information you present is so, so needed for moms, especially moms of challenging children.
Jody
What I thought was the most useful part of your program was where you talked about the importance of communication as a way to mitigate stressful meltdowns. Also, how labeling feelings and helping to expand the toddler's vocabulary helps them so they can understand and express their needs. Also, the power of positive reinforcement so that negative behaviors don’t stand out as the only time a parent is addressing behaviors
By the end of The 3 Steps to a Calm, Kind and Caring Toddler Course you'll be:
- Confident in navigating daily routines without power struggles.
- Equipped with practical tools that help your toddler communicate their emotions instead of resorting to tantrums.
- Waking up each day knowing that your toddler will listen, cooperate, and help out in positive ways.
- No longer feeling stuck reacting and overwhelmed by meltdowns, but instead enjoying a calm, connected, and joyful household.
Let's take a look at what's inside
Module 1:
Prevent Power-Struggles Before They Start with a Toddler That Listens
Create cooperative interactions right from the start. A toddler who listens the first time, follows directions promptly, and contributes by helping out while expressing their independence in positive and constructive ways.
Ex. A toddler who helps clean up their mess, food, toys and doesn’t talk back
Ex. A toddler who listens when asked not to touch something unsafe in the kitchen
Ex. A toddler who calmly follows bedtime routines without resistance.
Module 2: Transform Tantrums into Calm Manageable Moments
Watch as tantrums decrease in frequency and become opportunities for growth and skill, helping your child develop better emotional regulation. A toddler who communicates their needs calmly, uses gentle actions, self-soothes when things don't go their way, and makes positive choices during sibling conflicts.
Ex. A toddler who uses words to express frustration instead of throwing or hitting.
Ex. A toddler who patiently waits their turn during activities.
Ex. A toddler who asks politely for things instead of demanding or screaming.
Module 3: Stay Cool When Your Toddler Pushes Your Buttons and Promote Family Peace
Experience a calmer, more peaceful household as you learn how to navigate challenging behaviors with confidence and ease. Quickly calm yourself, respond with peace instead of reacting, and turn conflicts and challenges into moments of confident, empowered parenting.
Ex. When your toddler throws a tantrum at the store, you stay composed and diffuse the tantrum.
Ex. When your toddler screams for more screen time, you maintain your boundary without raising your voice and they comply.
Ex. When your toddler spills their drink all over the floor, instead of reacting with frustration, you calmly involve them in the clean-up, turning the moment into a lesson in responsibility.
🎉LIMITED TIME OFFER: 60 minute personal coaching call to guide you through challenges or option of google form with video response (Value $168)
Bonus #1: 28 Day Fast Track to a Kindergarten Ready Toddler Course ($97 value)
Worried that your toddler or preschooler is going to be ready for Kindergarten? In this course you'll feel confident your child will do great! Featuring guest host, Amy Fieldman, M.Ed and BCBA.
Bonus #2: A Free Ticket to my Tantrum-Free Holidays with Toddlers Workshop and also comes with an amazing guide! 1 hour workshop, 40+ Page guide and recording! ($37)
My best tips to thrive during the holidays with your toddlers plus an amazing guide! Comes with a recording if you miss the event!
* PLUS *
I'm going to throw in some BONUSES to ensure you are not just prepared for this Holiday Season but beyond the Toddler Years into Kindergarten!
Bonus 1
BONUS: 28-Day Fast Track to Raising Kindergarten Ready Toddlers mini-course (Value $97)
Bonus 2
Tantrum-Free Toddler Holidays Workshop and Guide to help you enjoy the holidays stress-free (Value $37).
Here's what's included in
The 3 Steps to a Calm, Kind and Caring Toddler
With this program you'll get:
1. The 3 Steps to a Calm, Kind and Caring Toddler Course (Value $297)
2. LIMITED TIME OFFER: 60 minute personal coaching call to guide you through challenges or option of google form with video response (Value $168)
3. BONUS: 28-Day Fast Track to Raising Kindergarten Ready Toddlers mini-course (Value $97)
4. BONUS: Tantrum-Free Toddler Holidays Workshop and Guide to help you enjoy the holidays stress-free (Value $37).
Total Value = ($599)
$197
One Time Payment & Special "Pre-Sale Price*
Module 1 will be delivered on December 6th 🎉
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